When it comes to making your sex life better, you have to do everything you can. However, there are certain things that can surely transform your sex life and one of those things had to be BDSM. Yes, you have seen naked women in bondage and felt this is something that you can do with your partner. But, you have to be very careful about trying bondage with your partner.

First of all, you have to make sure that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to bondage sex. You need to make sure that she is mentally ready for the things you are planning to do with her. You should know that the extreme level of bondage love needs the partners to be mentally ready for the action. It is a journey they will embark upon together. 

However, most couples jump the ship too early and without thinking about the consequences of bondage love, they try it out. And, as expected, they fail to find satisfaction from that. As a result, they stopped having bondage sex from that time. But, you need to understand that bondage is something that most girls want. It is an inherent desire of women to be dominated by men.

With bondage sex, a woman will get dominated by men and therefore she will have the sexual pleasure she always dreamt to have. Thus, if you are partner wants to improve the stalemate sex life that you two are currently having, then yes, BDSM could be the answer to that. However, you have to gather knowledge about bondage before trying. Here are some things you need to keep in mind before trying BDSM.

Learn different knots by watching naked women in bondage

Most people don’t realize that even before you try bondage sex, you have to learn how to bind a woman’s body with a rope. For most men, bondage is all about using handcuffs. However, bondage is a huge topic and you have so many different types of knots that you can learn to tie a woman’s body.

Apart from that, you have to make sure that you and your partner are on the same page while applying those knots. No matter what, you need to ensure that the positions are comfortable for your partner. You should stay away from doing anything that is uncomfortable to your partner. 

Communication and understanding have to be spot-on 

Now, when you and your partner try bondage for the very first time, you two have to ensure that your communication and understanding are spot on. You need to ask your partner how she feels with every step that you take. Also, your partner should know that anything that you would do with her naked body is for her pleasure.

The last thing you would want is to see your girl getting hurt during bondage. And, you should also tell your partner that whenever she feels uncomfortable, she should straight away tell you that. Thus, you need to make sure that you are communicating with your partner at every step and also, your partner understands that your intention is not to hurt her. 

Aftercare is perhaps the most important part

One of the most important parts of BDSM sex that most people seem to ignore and porn movies on BDSM will never teach you is aftercare. You need to take care of your partner once you are done with bondage play. You have to soothe her body and mind in every way possible. 

Thus, it is important that you learn about aftercare ina detailed manner even before trying BDSM. It is one of the most important and overlooked parts of bondage sex. However, this is that part where you and your partner will emotionally bond and will have the motivation to have bondage sex again. 

Final thoughts

Finally, watching naked women in bondage in various porn movies might inspire you to try it with your partner, but without proper knowledge, things can go from bad to worse very quickly. So, make sure you have the proper knowledge of bondage sex before trying this.